Forgiving the Fantasy

Many women are struggling in relationships due to the many facets of emotional fear found in relationships based on generational fantasies, i.e getting married because it is mandatory for societal acceptance; Stay married until death; live the American dream; get jobs, have kids, buy a house etc. etc.etc! Women, If you believe you should be treated a certain way such as a Queen or Princess, you are living in a fantasy. You are a Queen Goddess and do not need anything or anyone outside of you to treat you a certain way for you are who you are. It is your responsibility to treat yourself well and with respect and tap into your goddess energies. When you do your world will reflect what you believe about yourself and others based on mutual respect. When you learn self-love true love will find you!

Forgiving the Fantasy is about assisting you in self-discovery so you may align with your soul’s purpose. By living your purpose you will discover what you are here to accomplish in life. Through fulfilling your accomplishments you will find the path that leads to your true happiness. Most do not see or understand this correlation but it is a spiritual truth.

This is your responsibility, your life purpose is to heal your inner world by facing your emotional wounds and learning the process of detachment so you may become well and whole. Have you learned unconditional love? Do you love yourself unconditionally? Or do you doubt your divinity? When you carry the essence of true (real) within you teach a man how to love himself as he sees that it is safe to do so through you.

The world has sold you a false identity through the fantasies found in ego relationships. Relationship with the Divine (the God in you) is the ultimate relationship your soul seeks. When this relationship is not in the equation or in alignment you suffer from ego fantasies and do not fulfill your life purpose. You have fantasies of being with a man and him fulfilling all of your ego fantasies. This is not what relationships were created for.

Many times men are sent to us to transform us but all to often we miss the signs and don't get the messages due to misperceptions clouded by traditions, myths and the presence of emotional wounds from our past buried deep in the subconscious.

Women are the agents for change and men are the catalyst given us for transformation. When women rise to their rightful places in the world and in relationships the world will heal.

Some years ago I received the message from my Inner Guide, "When Women Rise the World will Heal." This message still resonates strongly within me. I am on a mission to help women to rise to the occasion of self-healing and self-empowerment.

Love and Light,

Queen Earth Goddess nazeelah